Friday, March 27, 2009

Repeat that again please...

For every action there is a reaction. The same can be said for things you say, no matter what you say it to will cause a reaction. If you say something to someone and it is meant to inflict harm on a third party, you may want to rethink what you say before you say it. If you think you know a person and you hear them say something that you feel may be good to repeat to someone else for whatever reason you might have, you run the risk of creating more damage than you had in mind. When you take someone else's words, and use it for your own personal advantage, then you just committed a gross act of negligence. Not only will it cause damage to the person you are telling it to, it also causes damage to the person you are talking about, but the person you cause the most damage to is yourself. It damages your own reputation more than you think, it also calls into question your motives and it will have a direct reaction to how others view you. This kind of intentional slap reveals what you are made of inside and out.
If you think you hear someone say something you think will have a have an affect on the outcome of someone's decision, your probably right. You just don't know what affect it's going to have, so you better know what you are talking about before repeating something.
It is one thing to repeat something someone tells you directly, then you have a valid right to repeat it, unless again, it is used to your advantage and meant to cause harm.
Enough said here, it's not healthy to dwell on the negative. Have a great day :)

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